101. Your
little boy looks up at you,
His big eyes open wide.
He puts his trusting hand in yours,
And says, "Come look outside!"
So
you tiptoe to the window
--But there's nothing there to see.
Then he points & whispers softly,
"See that robin by the tree?"
"My
child," you think, stay ever young.
That joys like this might last.
But though I know you too must grow,
Why need you grow so fast?"
For
soon he'll learn to read & write,
And play guitar & sing!
He'll reach out to the World about
and cut the apron strings!
He'll
seem to grow so quickly then,
That days & years shall fly!
The things that made a young child smile
He'll leave, as time goes by.
One
day he'll meet that special girl,
And want her for his wife.
They'll leave your care & move away
To build a brand new life.
But
just like that, your thoughts come back,
He shouts, "The robin smiled!"
You hug him close & say through tears,
"Thank God you're still a child!"
--Patricia J. White
102.A
story is told of a father who took his boy on his knee & told
him the story of the lost sheep; now it found a hole in the
fence & crawled through; how glad it was to get away;
hot it skipped & played in the sunshine until it wandered
so far that it could not find its way back home. And then
he told him of the wolf that chased the sheep, & how,
finally the good shepherd came & rescued it & carried
it back to the fold.
The little boy was greatly interested & when the story was over, he surprised
his father by asking, "Did they nail up the hole in the fence?"
How often we overlook the "hole in the fence!"
103. In
the breast of a bulb
Is the promise of spring.
In the little blue egg
Is a bird that will sing.
In the soul of a seed
Is the hope of the sod.
In the heart of a child
Is the Kingdom of God.
104. Any great painting
Will leave my wife fainting.
Its beauty so powerfully enthralls.
But never before
Did she slump, to the floor
As at Junior's new work on our walls!
105. Train up a child in the way he should go: & when he is
old, he will not depart from it.--Proverbs 22:6
106. Said
a precious little laddie,
To his father one bright day,
"May I give myself to Jesus,
Let Him wash my sins away?"
"Oh,
my son, but you're too little,
Wait until you older grow,
Bigger folks, 'tis true, do need Him, but
Little folks are safe, you know."
Said
the father to his laddie
As a storm was coming on,
"Are the sheep all safely sheltered,
Safe within the fold, my son?"
"All
the big ones are, my father,
But the lambs, I let them go,
For I didn't think it mattered,
Little ones are safe, you know."
Oh,
my brother! Oh, my sister!
Have you too made that mistake?
Little hearts that now are yielding
May be hardened then--too late.
'Ere
the evil days come nigh them,
Let the children come to Me,
And forbid them not," said Jesus,
"For such shall My Kingdom be."
107. I do not ask my son to follow in the footprints that I have
made.
My faith in him points out his path in bolder steps which lead beyond the narrow
borders of my way.
Be his more gentle where my feet too deeply trod, & where I faltered, may
his step be firm.
A prouder glory parent never won than this
To give the world a good, a manly son.
--Robert H. Lord
108. Words
of praise, indeed, are almost as necessary to warm a child
into congenial life as acts of kindness & affection.
Judicious praise is to children what sun is to flowers.
109. Somewhere
I read of a rough boy who attended a Sunday School & made
it tough for every teacher he had. Finally, after a consultation
with the teachers, the Superintendent led him to the door
one Sunday with this curt dismissal: "There's the street.
Go, & never come back to this Sunday School!"
He never came back, but they heard from him again! He began
a career of crime & bloodshed
that perhaps has never been equalled in modern times. Finally, before a theater
entrance in Chicago one evening, his body was riddled with bullets.
In one of the chicago papers a most unusual picture appeared--only the feet
of the dead desperado showed. The caption under the picture was brief: "These
are the feet of John Dillinger!" The editorial comment was heartsearching: "Who
knows where these feet might have gone if someone had guided them aright?"
110. A little boy & his daddy were looking at a litter of
puppies, planning to buy one, & the daddy asked the boy
which one he wanted. The lad pointed to a pup whose tail
was wagging furiously & said, "That one with the
happy ending."
111. England's
great & good Queen Victoria was
being honoured by a great celebration while visiting a city.
On a corner
of one street a large stand was built where a great company
of children was assembled to sing for her. That night after
all the excitement was over, the mayor received a telegram.
Perhaps he thought it was a compliment about the celebration.
But the message was a simple one straight from the motherly
heart: "The Queen wants to know whether all the children
got home safely."
112. There was a child who went forth every day;
And the first object he looked upon, that object he became.
And that object became part of him for the day, or a certain part of the day,
or for many years, or stretching cycles of years:
The early lilacs became part of this child....
And the apple-trees covered with blossoms, & the fruit afterward, & wood-berries, & the
commonest weeds by the road;
And the schoolmistress that passed on her way to the school....
The
blow, the quick loud word, the tight bargain, the crafty
lure, The family usages, the language, the company, the furniture--the
yearning & swelling heart.
The doubts of day-time & the doubts of night-time--the curious whether & how,
Whether that which appears is so, or is it all flashes & specks?
Men & women crowding fast in the streets--if they are not flashes & specks,
what are they?
These became part of that child who went forth every day, & who now goes, & will
always go forth every day.
--Walt Whitman
113. First
thing every morning,
Last thing every night,
Sometimes, dear Lord, I grumble,
"Oh, why is this my plight?"
But
when my children 'round me
Look to me with such hope,
It gives me faith & courage
To know somehow I'll cope!
Day
after day,
Weeks upon weeks,
We wash the same dishes,
Kiss the same cheeks.
But
year after year
We see a bit more,
And get a few hints
Of what God has in store!
A
princess?--With a dirty dress?
A prince?--With a dirty face?
Yes!--And they shall rule Earth someday
If you'll not lose your faith!
114. After a lecture by the late Francis Wayland Parker, great
Chicago educator, a woman asked: "How early can I begin
the education of my child?"
"When will your child be born?"
"Born" she gasped. "Why, he is already five years old!"
"My goodness, woman," he cried, "don't stand here talking to me--hurry
home; already you have lost the best five years."
115. I
learned more about Christianity from my mother than from
all the theologians of England.--John Wesley
116. Demoralize the youth of a nation & the revolution is
already won.--Nikolai Lenin
117. If
you would train your children rightly, train them in the
way they SHOULD go & not in the way they WOULD.
118. All
anybody expects of an adolescent is that he act like an adult & be
satisfied to be treated like a child.
119. With
the World in such a confused state, no wonder babies cry
when they come into it.
120 A
boy who was so slow to learn to talk that his parents thought
him abnormal & his teachers called him a "misfit".
His classmates avoided him & seldom invited him to play
with them. He failed his first college entrance exam at a
college in Zurich, Switzerland. A year later he tried again.
In time he became world famous as a scientist. His name:
Albert Einstein.
121. You
don't know what trouble is until your kids reach the age
of consent, dissent, & resent--all at the same time.
122. Happy
children of the King,
Jesus Children dance & sing!
Watch them dance around His Throne,
The ones He calls His very own!
See
them dancing in the street,
Sharing love with all they meet!
They are stars of His great show!
With tears of joy, we watch them glow!
What
a wonder He should please,
To use such simple ones as these--
To give us glimpses of above
And show the World His wondrous Love.
Little
child, so full of grace,
Jesus shining in your face!
How I wonder if you see--
Jesus, when you look at me?
Little
child, by cares unbound
You lighten up the World around!
Jesus grant you by His grace,
To, as you you sleep, behold His face!
Happy
children of the King,
Jesus Children, dance & sing!
Dance & sing around His throne;
Jesus loves you as His Own!
Lord,
give me faith as a child.
To lose my cares & learn to smile.
To daily show my love to You,
And trust You Jesus, as they do!
123. Children are the greatest child psychologists in the World & they'll
pull psychology on you! They know more about it than you
do, you've just gotta keep at least one jump ahead of them.
124. "Dear
Mother", said the little girl,
"Please whisper to me--Before I am a Christian
How old ought I be?
"How
old ought you to be, dear child,
Before you can love me?"
"I always loved you, Mommy dear,
Since I was tiny, wee."
"I
love you now, & always will,"
The little daughter said,
And on her mother's should hid
Her golden curly head.
"How
old, my girlie, must you be
Before you trust my care?"
"Oh, Mother dear, I do, I do,
I trust you everywhere."
"How
old ought you to be my child,
to do the things I say?"
The little girl looked up & said,
"I can do that today."
"Then
you can be a Christian, too,
Don't wait 'til you are grown.
Tell Jesus, now, you come to Him
To be His very own."
And
so the little girl knelt down,
And said, "Lord, if I may,
I'd like to be a Christian now,"
He answered, "Yes; today."
125. Open
the door for the children,
Tenderly gather them in,
In from the highways & hedges,
In from the places of sin;
Some are so young & so helpless,
Some are so hungry & cold,
Open the door for the children,
Gather them into the fold.
Open
the door for the children,
This would God have you to do,
Many are there near your doorstep,
Willing to listen to you.
Show them the way of salvation,
Teach them from God's Holy Word,
Reach them while hearts are yet tender,
Lead them in love to the Lord.
--Mary F. Kidder
126. Where
did you come from, baby dear?
Out of the Heavens into here.
Where
did you get your eyes so blue?
Out of the sky I came through.
What
makes the light in them sparkle & spin?
Some of the starry spikes left in.
Where
did you get that little tear?
I found it waiting when I got here.
What
makes your forehead so smooth & high?
A soft hand stroked it as I went by.
What
makes your cheek like a warm white rose?
I saw something better than anyone knows.
Whence
that three-cornered smile of bliss?
Three angels gave me at once a kiss.
Where
did you get this pearly ear?
God spoke, & it came out to hear.
Where
did you get those arms & hands?
Love made itself into hooks & bands.
Feet,
whence did you come, you darling things?
From the same box as the cherubs' wings.
How
did they all just come to be you?
God thought about me, & so I grew.
But
how did you come to us, you dear?
God thought about you, & so I am here.
--George MacDonald
127. Lord
Jesus Christ, our Lord most dear,
As Thou wast once an infant here,
So give this child of mine, we pray,
thy grace & blessing day by day:
O holy Jesus, Lord divine.
As
in Thy heavenly kingdom, Lord,
All things obey Thy sacred Word,
Do Thou Thy mighty succour give,
And shield this child by morn & eve:
O holy Jesus, Lord divine.
Their
watch let angels round him keep
Where'er he be, awake, asleep;
Thy holy Cross now let him bear,
That he Thy crown with saints may wear:
O holy Jesus, Lord divine.
--H. Von Laufenberg
128.As
Hannah to the Temple gate
Her dearest treasure bore,
So, Lord, to Thee we consecrate
This child for evermore.
Thy
faithful soldier, may he fight
Against falsehood, sin & shame
and losing all to win the right
Confess Thy holy name.
Thy
faithful servant, may he learn
To love & labour still,
And with a flaming spirit burn
To know & do Thy will.
O
Saviour, all he is is Thine,
And all he yet may be;
O shelter him with love divine,
And draw him near to Thee.
For
Thou, O Lord, are all our life
In Thee all struggles end:
Through all the sorrow & the strife
Our Maker & our Friend.
--Bishop Gilbert White
129.
He was only three years old when his father died. "So
that", he said, "I grew up under the care of my
blessed mother. She developed my early talent for drawing, & encouraged
me in my visits to the machine-shops of the town." Robert
was a poor pupil at school, however, & the teacher complained
to his mother. Whereupon Mrs. Fulton replied proudly: "My
boy's head, sir is so full of original notions that there
is no vacant chamber in which to store the contents of your
musty books." "I was only ten years old at that
time," said Fulton, "& my mother seemed to
be the only human being who understood my natural bent for
mechanics.
130. Parents
have always sought advice on rearing their children, & they
still do. Back in 1853, Mrs. Abell had the following to say.
"Remember that children are men & women in miniature, & though they
should be allowed to act as children, still our dealings with them should be
manly, & not morose; recollect, also that every look, word, tone & gesture,
nay even your dress makes an impression.
"Never correct a child on suspicion, or without understanding the whole
matter, nor trifle with a child's feelings when under discipline.
"Be always mild & cheerful in their presence; communicative but never
extravagant, trifling or vulgar in language or gesture. Never trifle with a child,
nor speak beseechingly, when it is doing wrong. Always follow commands with a
close & careful watch, until the thing is done, allowing no evasion, & no
modification, unless the child ask for it, & it be expressly granted.
"Never speak in an impatient, fretful manner, if you have occasion to find
fault.
"Never disappoint the confidence a child reposes in you, whether it be a
thing placed in your care or a promise.
"Always give prompt attention to a child when he speaks, so as to prevent
repeated calls, & that he may learn to give prompt attention when you call
him.
"Even in sickness, gentle restraint is better for the child than indulgence.
"Never try to impress a child with religious truth when in anger, or talk
to him of God, as it will not have the desired effect. Do it under more favourable
circumstances.
"Improve the first ten years of life as the golden opportunity, which may
never return. It is the seed time, & your harvest depends upon the seed then
sown.
"Selfishness that binds the miser in chains, that chills the heart, must
never be allowed a place.
"Never reprove children severely in company, nor hold them up to ridicule,
or make light of their failings.
"At the table a child should be taught to sit up & behave in a becoming
manner, not to tease when denied, or to leave his chair without asking. A parent's
wish at such a time should be a law, from which no appeal should be made.
"There should never be two sets of manners, the one for home & the other
for company, but a gentle behaviour should be always required.
"Never say to a child, 'I don't believe what you say,' nor even express
doubts. If you have such feelings, keep them to yourself, & wait; truth will
eventually be made plain."
131. "Jesus
loves me, this I know,
For the Bible tells me so:--
Little children ask no more,
For love is all they're looking for,
And in a small child's shining eyes
The Faith of all the ages lies--
And tiny hands & tousled heads
That kneel in prayer by little beds
Are closer to the dear Lord's heart
And of His Kingdom more a part
Than we who search, & never find,
The answers to our questioning mind--
For Faith in things we cannot see
Requires a child's simplicity
For, lost in life's complexities,
We drift upon uncharted seas
And slowly Faith disintegrates
While wealth & power accumulates--
And the more man learns, the less he knows,
And the more involved his thinking grows,
And, in his arrogance & pride,
No longer is man satisfied
To place his confidence & love
With childlike Faith in God above--
Oh, Father, grant once more to men
A simple childlike Faith again
and, with a small child's trusting eyes
May all men come to realise
That Faith alone can save man's soul
And lead him to a Higher Goal.
--Helen Steiner Rice
132. An
old sexton in a cemetery took special pains with the little
graves. When asked why, he said, "Sir, about those larger
graves, I don't know who are the Lord's & who are not,
but, you know, it's different with the children."
133. My
music is the patter
Of happy little feet,
Exploring house & attic
And scampering down the street.
My
art is crayon scribbling
On table, door & wall
In classic style & modern--
I treasure one & all.
My
literature comprises
The books my children know
And old tales I remember;
From childhood long ago.
The
kind of culture I acquire
No college impart,
Yet wisdom only life can teach
I cherish in my heart.
--Kathrine Kelly Woodley
134. But
the mercy of the Lord is from everlasting to everlasting
upon them that fear Him, & His righteousness unto children's
children; to such as keep His covenant, & to those that
remember His commandments to do them.--Psalm 103:17,18
135. They say, "you really pay for having children."--But
we RECEIVE much more than we pay! The kids are
the pay-off! They're worth it all! One of the most wonderful
things we have in this life are children.
136. God
shocked the World with a babe, not a bomb.
137. The
birth of a baby is God's vote of confidence in the future
of man.
138. Everyone
needs recognition, but one can carry the need too far--like
the little boy who says to his father, "Let's
play darts, I'll throw, & you say, 'Wonderful!'"
139. Many
years ago a farmer had an unusually fine crop of grain. Just
a few days before it was ready to harvest, there came
a terrible hail & wind storm. The entire crop was demolished.
After the storm was over, the farmer, with his little son
sent out on the porch. The little boy looked at what was
formerly the beautiful field of wheat, & then with tears
in his eyes he looked up at his dad, expecting to hear words
of despair. All at once his father started to sing softly, "Rock
of ages, cleft for me, let me hide myself in Thee." Years
after, the little boy, grown to manhood, said, "That
was the greatest sermon I ever heard." The farmer lost
a grain crop, but who knows but that that was the turning
point in the boy's life? He saw the faith of a godly father
in practice.
140.There
is an old story called "Not One to Spare!" There
was a very poor family who had five children, & somehow
a very rich old couple became acquainted with them & they
fell in love with the couple & their children. They themselves
were childless, so they offered to adopt one of the children.
They said, "We'll bring up your child in wealth & give
him a good education, he'll live in a wealthy home & inherit
all our riches! We want to adopt one of your children for
our own."
So the father & mother discussed which one they should give up, & they
went into the bedroom where the children were sleeping: "Let's see, could
we give this one? Or should we give that one?" When the rich couple came
back in the morning & asked, "Which one are you going to give us?",
the parents answered, "We're sorry, but we don't have one to spare!"
141. A
child's ear is a delicate instrument that can't hear a parent's
shout from the next room, but picks up the faintest
tingle of the ice cream man's bell.
142. The
generation that criticises the younger generation is always
the one that raised it.
143. Too
often an abandoned child is one who is still living with
this parents.
144. Watch
the kid who's cutting classes at school--he may be in training
to be a congressman later in life.
145. All
children don't disobey their parents. Some are never told
what to do.
146. Nothing
makes a boy smarter than being a grandson.
147. Children
disgrace us in public by behaving just like we do at home.
148. Most
kids can't understand why a country that makes atomic bombs
would ban firecrackers.
149. One
important way for us to help our children grow up is for
us to do it first.
150. If
you are disgusted & upset with your children, just
imagine how God must feel about His!
151Children
are a great deal more apt to follow your lead than the way
you point.
152. Children
need strength to lean on, a shoulder to cry on, & an
example to learn from.
153. You can get any child to run an errand for you--if you ask
him at bedtime.
154. Maybe
children could keep on the straight & narrow if
they could get information from someone who's been over the
route.
155. It's
extremely difficult for a child to live right if he has never
seen it done .
156. A
boy is the only thing God can use to make a man.
157. Most
children seldom misquote you; they repeat what you shouldn't
have said word for word.
158. Every
father should remember that one day his son will follow his
example instead of his advice.
159. As
the gardener is responsible for the products of his garden,
so the family is responsible for the character & conduct
of its children.
160. Child
psychology is what children manage their parents with.
161. Teaching
children to count is not as important as teaching them WHAT
counts.
162. A
meeting was held quite far from Earth!
It's time again for another birth.
Said the Angels to the Lord above,
"This Special Child will need much love.
"His
progress may be very slow
Accomplishment he may not show
And he'll require extra care
From all the folks he meets down there.
"He
may not run or laugh or play;
His thoughts may seem quite far away.
In many ways he won't adapt
And he'll be known as handicapped.
So
let's be careful where he's sent
We want his life to be content.
Please, Lord, find the parents who
Will do a SPECIAL job for YOU!!
They
will not realize right away
The leading role they're asked to play.
But with this child sent from above
Comes stronger Faith & richer Love!
"And
soon they'll know the PRIVILEGE given
In caring for their gift from Heaven.
Their precious charge so meek & mild
"Is HEAVEN'S VERY SPECIAL CHILD!!!"
--by Edna Massimilla
163. One
of the problems of juvenile delinquency is children running
away from home. It is entirely possible they may be looking
for their parents.
164. Children
are like wet cement. Whatever falls on them makes a lasting
impression.
165. You
can scrape the baby out of the womb, but you cannot scrape
the baby out of the mind.
166. A
century ago men were following with bated breath the march
of Napoleon, & waiting with feverish impatience for news
of the wars. All the while, babies were being born in their
own homes. But who could think about babies? Everybody was
thinking about battles.
In one year, 1809, midway between Trafalgar & Waterloo, there came into
the World some babies who were destined to be stars of greatest magnitude--Gladstone,
Oliver Wendell Holmes, Tennyson, & Felix Mendelsohn. But nobody thought
of babies, only battles. Yet which of the battles of 1809 mattered more than
the babies of 1809? We fancy that God can manage His world only with big battalions
when all the while He is doing it by babies. When a wrong wants righting, or
a truth wants preaching, or a continent wants opening, God sends a baby into
the World to do it!
167. A
sweet little miniature weaver
Came into our home one day,
Like a wee little queen of the cradle,
God grant her a long, long stay.
Such
is the spell she has woven,
We scarce know how it came to be,
Into the meshes of every heart,
Knitting herself tenderly.
Dear
little helpless struggler
What strength for such tiny fist,
A
fountain of love, and a teacher
Whose lessons so few can resist.
Like
a week small glam'rous enchantress
You reign from your magic bed,
A queen from the tip of your tiny toes
To the top of your fuzzy head.
A
delegated prophet, whose office
Is to brighten, & deepen home love,
We welcome you, little sojourner
as a loan from the Father above.
A
harbinger & herald of good tidings;
You make, with your smiles & your tears,
Young again hearts well nigh wearied
By the cares & the toil of the years.
--Velma B. Hofman
168. The
mythical country of Boruvia has a law requiring all babies
to be named within an hour after birth. One day, a woman
was rushed to the hospital, where she delivered twins.
At the same time, her husband was rushed to the hospital
unconscious
with a head injury received on the job. When the man came
to, he was informed that his wife had delivered a boy & a
girl two hours before, & his brother had given them
names. "Oh,
no, not by brother," groaned the man, "He's such
a practical joker. What did he name them?"
"He named the girl Denise," replied the nurse.
"Oh, I like that name," said the man, obviously relieved. "What
did he name the boy?"
"Denephew."
169. My
baby when she's nursing,
Doesn't mind my extra flab.
In fact she thinks it's very nice,
Just more of Mom to grab!
170. My
day-old child lay in my arms
And I held his pudgy hand;
I whispered softly, "How I wish,
That you could understand.
I've
oh so much to say to you.
(He gave a cough & a nod)
Hurry, hurry, hurry & grow
So I can tell you of God!"
My
newborn's little mouth was still
As though he didn't hear,
But a kind of light passed thru' his eyes
And I saw this thought appear:
"How
I wish that I could speak,
I've a hundred things to say;
Before I forget, I'd tell YOU of God--
I was with Him yesterday."
171. Isn't
it wonderful to watch a baby learn & grow? Did
you know even while he's still in his mother's tummy the
baby is learning?--He's hearing sounds, voices, music, recognising
voices, even recognising music!
172. A
small boy invaded the lingerie section of a big California
department store & shyly presented his problem to a woman
clerk. "I want to buy my mom a present of a slip," he
said, "but I don't know what size she wears."
"Is she tall or short, fat or skinny?" asked the clerk.
"She's just perfect," beamed the small boy. So she wrapped up a size
34 for him.
Two days later mom came to the store herself--and changed it to a 52.
173. A
good man dies when a boy goes wrong.
174. Considering
the number of divorces today, it seems that more PARENTS
are running away from home than CHILDREN.
175. It
is sobering to recall that fathers bear the title God Himself
has chosen as a picture of His relationship to His
people.
176. The
police department of Houston, Texas, issued a leaflet given
rules for raising delinquent children:
Begin from infancy to give him everything he wants. When
he picks up bad words, laugh at him. Never give him any spiritual
training. Wait until he is twenty-one & let
him decide for himself. Don't use the word "wrong". It may give him
a guilt complex. Do everything for him so that he will be experienced in throwing
all responsibility on others. Let him read any printed matter he can get his
hands on.
Quarrel frequently in his presence--he won't be too shocked when the home is
broken up. Give him all the spending money he wants. He shouldn't have things
as tough as you had them. AND prepare for a life of grief--you will have it.
177. A
young English boy was called "Carrot Top" by
other students & given "little chance of success" by
some teachers. He ranked third lowest in class: grade averages
for English was 95%, history 85%, mathematics 50%, Latin
30%.
His teacher's report reads: "The boy is certainly no scholar & has
repeated his grade twice. He has also a stubborn streak & is sometimes
rebellious in nature. He seems to have little or no understanding of his school
work, except in a most mechanical way. At times, he seems almost perverse in
his ability to learn. He has not made the most of his opportunities."
Later, the lad settled down to serious study & soon the world began to
hear about Winston Churchill.
178. A
child has to learn obedience in the home or he will never
learn obedience to the Heavenly Father.
179 Let
thy child's first lesson be obedience, and the second will
be what thou wilt.
180. Oftentimes
when we hear our children talk, we realize we should have
been more careful of what they heard us say.
181. A
father is a person who is forced to endure childbirth without
an anesthetic.
182. Fathers
give daughters away to other men who aren't good enough so
they can have grandchildren that are better than
anybody else's.
183. For
a long time, the Mohammedans had been laying siege to the
capital of Spain. Courageously & skillfully King
Alphonso led the defense, but by some twist of fate the attackers
captured the king's son.
The besiegers made the most of their hostage. The sultan ordered a gallows
built in full view of the capital. The young prince was forced to stand under
the words, "Alphonso, either the city or your son!"
What a decision for a father to make! Anxiously his advisors & officers
watched the face of their king. Will he give up the city & allow the enemy
to slay or enslave his people? Or will he give up his own dear son? They had
not long to wait, for King Alphonso decided quickly. Back to the sultan went
this message: "Let my son die, that my people may live!"
184. A
young successful attorney said:
"The greatest gift I ever received was a gift I got one Christmas when my
Dad gave me a small box. Inside was a note saying, 'Son, this year I will give
you 365 hours, an hour every day after dinner. It's yours. We'll talk about what
you want to talk about, we'll go where you want to go, play what you want to
play. It will be your hour!'"
"My dad not only kept his promise," he said, "but every year he
renewed it--and it's the greatest gift I ever had in my life. I am the result
of his time."
185. Lost!
A boy! Not kidnapped by bandits & hidden in a cave
to weep & starve & raise a nation to frenzied searching.
No, his father lost him. Too busy to sit with him at the
fireside & answer his trivial questions during the years
when Dad is the only great hero to a boy, he let go his hold.
His mother lost him too. Engrossed in worthwhile programs,
clubs with high aims, she let the babysitter hear his prayers & abdicated
her place of influence.
186. If
it had not been for a crooked groceryman, J.C.
Penny might
have become the owner of a grocery store rather than the
owner of a dry goods chain & the nation's leading merchandiser.
When he was a teenager, Jim worked for a groceryman in Hamilton, Missouri.
He liked the work & had plans to make a career of it. One night he came
home & proudly told his family about his "foxy" employer. The
grocer had a practice of mixing low quality coffee with the expensive brand & thus
increasing his profit. Jim laughed as he told the story at the supper table.
His father didn't see anything funny about the practice. "Tell me," he
said, "if the grocer found someone palming off an inferior article on
him for the price of the best, do you think he would think they were just being
foxy, & laugh about it?"
Jim could see his father was disappointed in him. "I guess not," he
replied. "I guess I just didn't think about it that way."
Jim's father instructed him to go to the grocer the next day & collect
whatever money due him & tell the grocer he wouldn't be working for him
any longer. Jobs were not plentiful in Hamilton, but Mr. Penny would rather
his son be unemployed than be associated with a crooked businessman.
J.C. Penny came that close to becoming a grocer.
187. Doctor
Potter tells the story of a young man who stood at the bar
of a court of justice to be sentenced for forgery.
The judge had known him from a child, for his father had
been a famous legal light & his work on the Law of Trusts
was the most exhaustive work on the subject in existence. "Do
you remember your father?" asked the judge sternly, "that
father whom you have disgraced?"
The prisoner answered: "I remember him perfectly. When I went to him for
advice or companionship, he would look up from his book on the Law of Trusts, & said, "Run
way, boy, I am busy." My father finished his book, & here I am." The
great lawyer had neglected his own trust, with awful results.
188. Glenn
Doman, author of "Teach
Your Baby to Read",
says, "Parents, in the main, are unmatched in their
potential, & they, not the professionals, should be making
the decisions concerning their children. A reasonably proficient
father is a much better combination than a totally proficient
professional like myself."
189. I've
made this observation while browsing 'round the town:
Some people bring their children up,
Some people bring their children down.
190.
O mothers, so weary, discouraged,
Worn out with the cares of the day,
You often grow cross & impatient,
Complain of the noise & the play;
For the day brings so many vexations,
For many things go amiss;
But mothers, whatever may vex you.
Send the children to bed with a kiss!
The dear little feet wander often.
Perhaps from the pathway of right,
The dear little hands find new mischief
To try you from morning till night;
But think of the desolate mothers
Who'd give all the world for your bliss,
And, as thanks for your infinite blessings,
Send the children to bed with a kiss!
For some day their noise will not vex you,
The silence will hurt you far more;
You will long for their sweet, childish voices,
For a sweet, childish face at the door;
and to press a child's face to your bosom,
You'd give all the world for just this!
For the comfort 'twill bring you in sorrow,
Send the children to bed with a kiss!
191. Everybody
has heard of Martin Luther;
but who knows the name of his mother, the wife of a coal
miner who often went hungry
so that little Martin might attend school?
192. You
painted no Madonnas
On chapel walls in Rome,
But with a touch diviner
You lived one in your home.
You
wrote no lofty poems
That critics counted art,
But with a nobler vision
You lived them in your heart.
You
carved no shapeless marble
To some high-souled design.
But with a finer sculpture
You shaped this soul of mine.
You
built no great cathedrals
That centuries applaud,
But with a grace exquisite
Your life cathedraled God.
Had I the gift of Raphael,
Or Michelangelo,
Oh, what a rare Madonna
My mother's life would show!
--Thomas W. Fessenden
193. God
could not be in every place
With loving hands to help erase
The teardrops from each baby's face,
And so He thought of mother.
He
could not send us here alone
And leave us to a fate unknown;
Without providing for His own,
The outstretched arms of mother.
God
could not watch us night & day
And kneel beside o your crib & pray.
Or kiss our little aches away;
And so He sent us mother.
And
when our childhood days began,
He simply could not take command,
That's why He placed our tiny hand
Securely into mother's.
The
days of youth slipped quickly by,
Life's sun rose higher in the sky,
Full grown were we, yet ever nigh
To love us still, was mother.
and
when life's span of years shall end,
I know that God will gladly send,
To welcome home her child again,
That ever faithful mother.
--George W. Wiseman
194. An
aged, white-haired mother sat with a smile on her face, waiting
for her famous son, Dwight Eisenhower, to arrive.
Someone said to her, "You must be proud of your great & illustrious
son?" Upon which she asked, "Which son?" Each
one was equally great to that noble mother.
Said Dwight Eisenhower: "My sainted mother taught me a devotion to God & a
love of country which have ever sustained me in my many lonely & bitter
moments of decision in distant & hostile lands. To her, I yield a son's
reverent thanks."
195. I
did not have my mother long, but she cast over me an influence
which has lasted all my life. The good effects of her early
training I can never lose. If it had not been for her appreciation & her
faith in me at a critical time in my experience, I should
never likely have become an inventor. I was always a careless
boy, & with a mother of different mental calibre, I should
have turned out badly. But her firmness, her sweetness, her
goodness, were potent powers to keep me in the right path.
My mother was the making of me. The memory of her will always
be a blessing to me.
--Thomas A. Edison
196. Years
ago, a young mother was making her way across the hills of
South Wales, carrying her tiny babe in her arms, when
she was overtaken by a blinding blizzard. She never reached
her destination alive, & when the blizzard had subsided
her body was found beneath the snow. But the searchers discovered
that before her death she had taken off all her outer clothing & wrapped
it about her baby.
And when they unwrapped the child, to their great surprise & joy, they
found he was alive & well. She had given her life for her child, proving
the depth of her motherly love. Years later the child, David
Lloyd George,
grown to manhood, & without doubt one of England's greatest statesmen.
197. Parents
can tell but never teach,
Until they practice what they preach.
198. She
could not paint, nor write, nor rhyme
Her footprints on the sand of time,
As some distinguished women do;
Just simple things of life she knew--
Like tucking little folks in bed,
Or soothing someone's aching head.
She
was no singer, neither blessed
With any special loveliness
To win applause & passing fame;
No headlines ever blazed her name.
But, oh, she was a shining light
to all her loved ones, day & night!
Her
home was kingdom, she its queen;
Her reign was faithful, honest, clean,
Impartial, loving, just, to each
And every one she sought to teach.
Her name? Of course, there is no other
In all the world so sweet--just Mother!
--May Allread Baker
199. You
may have tangible wealth untold;
Caskets of jewels & coffers of gold;
Richer than I you can never be--
I had a mother who read to me.
200. I
was aboard a large air liner some time ago which ran into
an extremely severe wind & rainstorm. Despite the size
of the plane & the tremendous power of its four wing
motors, the ship was being tossed violently. A little nine-year-old
fellow was my seat companion. It was his first experience
in the air, & he was desperately afraid. Suddenly he
looked up at me & said, "Are you afraid?" I
smiled & replied, "No, this is real fun." And
immediate change came over the little chap--fear & tension
left him. He, too, had fun.