CHOICE & DECISION-MAKING
1. God didn't stop Adam & Eve in the Garden when they made
the wrong choice. He had to let them do it. But He punished them,
He rewarded them accordingly, according to their works & lies & evil
doings & disobedience!
2. A lot of people are not neutral, they simply haven't yet made
a final
decision
because they haven't had the full benefit of all
the Truth. They haven't had a real chance to know the Truth, so
therefore they can't yet be held responsible by God. So God gives
them a chance to hear the good thing, the right thing, the real
thing, & from then on they have a choice & are compelled
to make a decision.
3. Sometimes when you are trying to make a decision, the Devil
fights extra
hard & the Lord allows him to make it that way
to test you, to see if you're going to give up even before you
get started! Sometimes you think something the Lord may be asking
of you is going to be complete Hell & that you're not going
to be able to take it. It may seem like it's going to be that way,
but things are rarely as hard in reality as you think they're going
to be beforehand.
4. Whenever you have a decision to make, you've got to decide
whether it's
going to
bear good fruit or bad fruit. Maybe it's
going to bear both good fruit & bad fruit, maybe it's going
to help one person but it's going to hurt someone else, so you've
got to decide what's going to bear the best fruit. Is it going
to bear more good fruit than bad fruit? Most decisions aren't all
that clear cut; it's not either going to be all bad or all good,
it's usually a little of both. But all things will work together
for good in the end for those who love the Lord.
5. When there is a difficult choice you have to decide on the
basis of what
will
bring the best results. If it's a clear black-&-white
question, then you don't have any problem, you pretty much know
what to decide. But it's difficult to make decisions where you
have to weigh the consequences & see that maybe it's good in
this respect, but it's not so good in that respect, it's good in
one thing, but it's not so good in another. Then we have to balance
them & decide which is best & what's going to bear the
best fruit.
6. Life
is a learning process!--And you don't learn it by snapping
your
fingers or
suddenly getting an injection!--Or like you've
seen in some of these sci-fis where they put a skull cap on one
guy & drain his brain & put all of his knowledge in somebody
else's head. Wouldn't that be nice? It would be so easy!
But look what you would miss!--This trial-&-error process,
this trying-&-learning process!
7. When
you insist on wilfully going your own way like Israel did,
God has drawn the line. He has committed Himself to not stopping
you & to letting you have your own
way, just like He did Adam & Eve in the Garden & as He
will to the very end: He'll let man have his way until he nearly
wrecks the World!
8. He has to let man go his own way & make his own choice.
It's the only way He can work out His purpose! It's like His great
experiment & His great demonstration--His great skit, if you
will--His illustrated message of the results of good & the
results of evil as an everlasting example to the Universe.
9. If
you didn't have that human frailty, that human weakness to
make wrong
decisions & to fail, then there would not be
the freedom of choice, the majesty of free will that God implanted
in every heart, including, apparently, in the hearts of the Angels,
to make a choice, to voluntarily love & serve Him. He wanted
you as friends, He wanted you as His Beloved, not only friends,
but His Bride!
10. To
every man there openeth
A Way, and Ways, and a Way.
And the High Soul climbs the High Way,
And the Low soul gropes the Low,
And in between, on the misty flats,
The rest drift to and fro.
But to every man there openeth
A High Way and a Low,
And every man decideth
The way his soul shall go.
--John Oxenham
11. The
evil spirits are allowed to influence & try to persuade
us with doubts & fears & thoughts, but we physical human
beings still have the choice to either obey them or not obey them,
to obey the voice of the Lord or obey the voice of the Enemy, & they
are the voice of the Enemy! They're influences. They influence
us. They can't make us do anything, but they try to affect us to
make choices that are wrong. They can't actually physically or
violently intervene or interfere at all. But their influence affects
the physical according to our choice & God's permission. We
can either accept their evil thoughts, or we can reject them.
12. There's
a certain leeway & allowance for variation of
choice in the will of God as long as it doesn't go too far right
or too far left. He may let you wander around quite a bit according
to your own personal choice, here or there, as long as you stay
in the correct general area. As long as you stay within the tunnel
of God's will, He'll give you your choice. Of course, there's always
the best even within the tunnel & the worst, so He leaves that
choice up to you.
13. It's
a very fascinating game to watch what a child will do within
certain
boundaries
of safety & health & what's good
for them, & I imagine that must be a little bit the way God
feels! He puts us here on Earth & He gives us a choice--a lot
of choices! Adam & Eve probably could have eaten from 1,999
different trees in the Garden besides that one! They didn't have
to eat of the Tree of Knowledge of Good & Evil. They had a
lot of choice, a lot of variety to choose from, right? So the Lord
is not unreasonable & I don't think He's too narrow-minded
or too strict. He's been awful good to us!
14. God
has to bring an end soon, it just can't go on much longer or
man
would destroy
himself. God has to come & put a stop
to it, & then the age of voluntary, willing, peaceful acceptance
of the Love of God & His Kingdom in hearts is going to come
to an end in a certain way, in that man is going to then be ruled
by us & forced to obey the Kingdom of God & the rule of
God & the Law of God. He is going to be forced to do so & God
is going to enforce peace on Earth & enforce equality & enforce
justice, to show what a wonderful world it should have been & would
have been if men had followed the Lord.
15. Always
take plenty of time to make a snap decision.
16. Choice,
not chance, determines human destiny.
17. There
are no born decision-makers. The most successful decision-makers
follow a set of rules that help them select the best alternative
under the circumstances. The basic rules of decision-making involve
six steps:
a) State the apparent problem or situation you face.
b) Gather the facts.
c) Organise and interpret the facts.
d) State
the real problem or situation.
e) Develop alternative solutions.
f) Select the most appropriate alternative.
18. In
darkness there is no choice. It is light that enables us to
see the differences
between things; & it is Christ Who
gives us light.
19. The
man who insists upon seeing with perfect clearness before he
decides never decides.