A. The Bible's description of a virtuous wife:PRO 11:16. A gracious woman retaineth honour: and strong men retain riches. PRO 12:4. A virtuous woman is a crown to her husband: but she that maketh ashamed is as rottenness in his bones. PRO 19:14. House and riches are the inheritance of fathers: and a prudent wife is from the LORD. PRO 31:10. Who can find a virtuous woman? for her price is far above rubies. PRO 31:11. The heart of her husband doth safely trust in her, so that he shall have no need of spoil. PRO 31:12. She will do him good and not evil all the days of her life. PRO 31:10. Who can find a virtuous woman? for her price is far above rubies. PRO 31:11. The heart of her husband doth safely trust in her, so that he shall have no need of spoil. PRO 31:12. She will do him good and not evil all the days of her life. PRO 31:13. She seeketh wool, and flax, and worketh willingly with her hands. PRO 31:14. She is like the merchants' ships; she bringeth her food from afar. PRO 31:15. She riseth also while it is yet night, and giveth meat to her household, and a portion to her maidens. PRO 31:16. She considereth a field, and buyeth it: with the fruit of her hands she planteth a vineyard. PRO 31:17. She girdeth her loins with strength, and strengtheneth her arms. PRO 31:18. She perceiveth that her merchandise is good: her candle goeth not out by night. PRO 31:19. She layeth her hands to the spindle, and her hands hold the distaff. PRO 31:20. She stretcheth out her hand to the poor; yea, she reacheth forth her hands to the needy. PRO 31:21. She is not afraid of the snow for her household: for all her household are clothed with scarlet. PRO 31:22. She maketh herself coverings of tapestry; her clothing is silk and purple. PRO 31:23. Her husband is known in the gates, when he sitteth among the elders of the land. PRO 31:24. She maketh fine linen, and selleth it; and delivereth girdles unto the merchant. PRO 31:25. Strength and honour are her clothing; and she shall rejoice in time to come. PRO 31:26. She openeth her mouth with wisdom; and in her tongue is the law of kindness. PRO 31:27. She looketh well to the ways of her household, and eateth not the bread of idleness. PRO 31:28. Her children arise up, and call her blessed; her husband also, and he praiseth her. PRO 31:29. Many daughters have done virtuously, but thou excellest them all. PRO 31:30. Favour is deceitful, and beauty is vain: but a woman that feareth the LORD, she shall be praised. PRO 31:31. Give her of the fruit of her hands; and let her own works praise her in the gates PRO 31:26. She openeth her mouth with wisdom; and in her tongue is the law of kindness. 1TIM 3:11. Even so must their wives be grave, not slanderers, sober, faithful in all things. TIT 2:4. That they may teach the young women to be sober, to love their husbands, to love their children, TIT 2:5. To be discreet, chaste, keepers at home, good, obedient to their own husbands, that the word of God be not blasphemed. B. Her duty to guide the home & children: 1TIM 5:14. I will therefore that the younger women marry, bear children, guide the house, give none occasion to the adversary to speak reproachfully. PSA 128:3. Thy wife shall be as a fruitful vine by the sides of thine house: thy children like olive plants round about thy table. PRO 14:1. Every wise woman buildeth her house: but the foolish plucketh it down with her hands. PRO 31:27. She looketh well to the ways of her household, and eateth not the bread of idleness. 1TIM 3:11. Even so must their wives be grave, not slanderers, sober, faithful in all things. TIT 2:4. That they may teach the young women to be sober, to love their husbands, to love their children, TIT 2:5. To be discreet, chaste, keepers at home, good, obedient to their own husbands, that the word of God be not blasphemed. C. Examples of how wives should not be:PRO 7:11. (She is loud and stubborn; her feet abide not in her house: 1TIM 5:13. And withal they learn to be idle, wandering about from house to house; and not only idle, but tattlers also and busybodies, speaking things which they ought not. D. Virtue is more important than physical beauty:PRO 11:22. As a jewel of gold in a swine's snout, so is a fair woman which is without discretion. PRO 31:30. Favour is deceitful, and beauty is vain: but a woman that feareth the LORD, she shall be praised. 1PE 3:3. Whose adorning let it not be that outward adorning of plaiting the hair, and of wearing of gold, or of putting on of apparel; 1PE 3:4. But let it be the hidden man of the heart, in that which is not corruptible, even the ornament of a meek and quiet spirit, which is in the sight of God of great price. 1PE 3:5. For after this manner in the old time the holy women also, who trusted in God, adorned themselves, being in subjection unto their own husbands: |
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